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independentlovers. “You need to give yourself permission to be happy now. not when you lo

“You need to give yourself permission to be happy now. not when you lost weight, not when you found your soulmate, not when you have more money. we seek excitement from future events, but once those goals are met, the temporary pleasures will pass and they will be replaced by the next fantasy. devote your full attention to your inner self and appreciate being in the moment. happiness is never external, but a way of living and appreciating life. it’s not reality, just the way you perceive it. so go and shift your focus from the outcome to watching yourself grow.”- peachy-beauty tumblr

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independentlovers. \"Take your morning back from distraction and phones and planning and w

"Take your morning back from distraction and phones and planning and worry. Wake up and drink water, move slow, brush your teeth, scrape your tongue. Prepare your herbs and massage your body with oil. Do a breathing exercise then rinse off. Leave your phone in the corner. Make a simple breakfast and your coffee. Chew your food and only do that. When you’re finished, move on with your day. You’ll get more done during this morning moment than you think - maybe an hour of time total. This sounds like pushing productivity but im not, it’s ritual+routine and that makes humans feel really good. Try it out for a month and see how nourishing and impactful it is to move with carfeul purpose, just for yourself and no other reason."

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independentlovers. “I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, t

“I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful and purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think “yes, I’m exactly who I want to be”. To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world. And you should never forget.”

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independentlovers. “At ANY age, nobody is worth stressing over. Like move on, leave peopl

“At ANY age, nobody is worth stressing over. Like move on, leave people behind. Go find yourself, the world is yours. Life goes on.”— via obscenes tumblr

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independentlovers. \"This isn’t all that there is!!! There are sunsets you haven’t seen, p

"This isn’t all that there is!!! There are sunsets you haven’t seen, people you haven’t met, things you haven’t learned, food you haven’t tried, and places you haven’t visited. Life is so much more than what you’re experiencing right now, and there will always be new things coming. There’s so much more out there for you!!" -Thoradvice tumblr

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independentlovers. “Maybe right now, your journey isn’t about love.

Maybe right now, you

“Maybe right now, your journey isn’t about love. Maybe right now, your journey is about being alone. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged — to learn how to wake up in the middle of the bed, to finally find hope in the vacancy, hope in the quiet, hope in the way you stretch into your life and give yourself permission to take up space within it. Maybe right now, you are being shown — that you can take care of yourself, that you can depend on the person you have become, that you can be your own home no matter how life tries to weather you. No, maybe right now your journey isn’t about love. Maybe, right now, your journey is about hope. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to remind yourself of the beauty life has to offer you. Maybe right now, you are being given the space to discover the kinds of places that leave your bones dripping with feeling, the kinds of songs that are yours and yours alone, the kinds of people who love you in a way that does not seek to change you. Maybe right now, you are being given a chance to reclaim your joy, to make it the most natural extension of who you are, to let it spill out of your words, and your laughter, and your tears — to let it be something you believe you are worthy of, to let it be something you believe you deserve. See maybe right now your journey isn’t about love. Maybe right now your journey is about you. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to be your own savior, to be your own safe place. Maybe right now you are being reminded — that the people who walked away were only ever leading you back to yourself, were only ever leading you here. And here, you are okay on your own. Here, you are rebuilding. Here, you are adapting, and mending, and reclaiming all of the pieces you let them walk away with. Here, you are being kinder your soul, you are giving yourself the same kind of love you have always given to others. Here, you are not rushing your heart, you are not depending on another human being to fix it. Instead, here, you are doing that on your own. Here, you are healing.”- rainbowsalt

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independentlovers. \"I wonder how many stranger's stories we make it into? You know, maybe

"I wonder how many stranger's stories we make it into? You know, maybe someone saw you in passing and told their friends about how pretty the girl in the lavender sweater was. Or maybe they overheard you say a joke and repeated it to their friend, confessing that they heard it from some guy at the store. I think about this all the time" ♡

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independentlovers. “It's hard being human. We are such a complex, beautifully diverse gro

“It's hard being human. We are such a complex, beautifully diverse group of beings. We feel things. A lot. We experience thoughts and emotions. Inspirations and desires. Outside opinions and inner conflicts. We navigate the world, see its beauty, hear its music, and appreciate its song. We are humans, living a human life, having a human experience. It's challenging, but worth it. You're getting there.” -thepowerwithin tumblr

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independentlovers. «Listen to yourself and watch your language. Instead of saying \"sorry

«Listen to yourself and watch your language. Instead of saying "sorry for ranting", say "thank you for listening to me." Instead of saying "sorry that I am so over-emotional", say "thank you for trying to understand something difficult". Instead of saying "sorry if I am a burden", say "thank you for the time and energy you invest into our friendship". Good things will come when you realize you are not an apology.» -ipoetried tumblr

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independentlovers. “Even if they took you for granted. You were kind. You were giving. Yo

“Even if they took you for granted. You were kind. You were giving. You were caring. They’ll always remember you as the one with the big heart. The one with the overflowing love. Even if they picked someone else. You did what you had to when you liked someone. You chose them. You invested in them. You did what you would want someone to do to you. You practiced what you preached. You didn’t just expect a kind of love you weren’t able to give. You gave it all and more and that kind of karma will return to you. Even if they thought you were temporary. You know deep in your heart that you’re not. You know that you didn’t play games or manipulate anyone into loving someone you’re not. You showed them your vulnerability, your feelings and what they meant to you. You showed them that they mattered. You showed them your scars without trying to conceal them. You were an entire galaxy for someone who couldn’t even see the stars. Even if they made you feel like you weren’t good enough. You gave your all. You did your best. You did everything you could to be someone worth loving and if that’s not enough for someone, it’s not your job to change them. It’s your job to stay exactly the way you are because you will always be more than enough for someone who is looking for depth, for quality and for strength. Maybe you were too strong for the weak ones or too deep for the shallow ones or maybe you were a home when they were looking for a vacation. Even if they leave, you win. Because they’re showing you who they are. They’re showing you what they’re made of. They’re showing you what kind of person you don’t want to be with. You don’t want the kind of person who walks away because they can’t handle who you are. You don’t want someone who acts and lies just so they can manipulate you into loving them. You don’t want someone who is only looking for attention. You don’t want someone who sees you as a placeholder. You don’t want someone who makes you feel like you’ll never be good enough. You don’t want someone who doesn’t know how to stay.” -ranianaim

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independentlovers. \"What you have to say is important. Sadly, there are a lot of people o

"What you have to say is important. Sadly, there are a lot of people out there who do not listen when you speak, who do not care what you have to say, who simply do not understand your interests. Speak anyway. Let the world know who you are. Do not let another person’s ignorance stop you from sharing what makes you happy and keeps you alive. What you have to say matters so damn much." -anniespositivity Tumblr

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independentlovers. \"Beauty is in the way you hold yourself. It's how you treat people. Th

"Beauty is in the way you hold yourself. It's how you treat people. The way you love. It's self acceptance. Beauty is in your soul. If you think you are any more of a person because your face is nice you need a reality check."

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